While there is more work to do on many levels, today’s history
making Supreme Court decision is worth celebrating. In social
justice work, in order to keep from being overwhelmed and getting
burned out, we need to celebrate even small victories, and today
was more than just a small victory, it was a huge one.
Kitsap County joined folks around the nation in celebrating with
at least two Bremerton bars hosting. One celebration was at the
Honor Bar near Evergreen Park, and another was at the Toro Lounge
downtown Bremerton.
The Supreme Court decision has far reaching impacts, and it is
hard to know where to begin. However, I found some statements from
a variety of organizations that I thought worth sharing. I have
been working towards marriage equality for about 15 years, and many
folks have been doing more for longer. Even though getting to this
point in marriage equality has taken a long time, in some ways it
seems like it happened fast. I guess because once the marriage
equality ball started rolling through the states it really picked
up speed.
The decision today is a positive thing for families all over the
United States, including military families that include same sex
spouses. Since Kitsap County is a “Navy Town” the decision
today affects many military families here. The American Military
Partner Association posted in their
blog:
“Nationwide marriage equality is a
tremendous victory, and the progress made for LGBT service members
and their families in just a few short years has been profound.”
Before today’s decision “… even after so many states gained
marriage equality, and even though the military recognized the
legal marriages of our members, once they stepped off their
military installation, the laws of the state often took precedence.
Even if they lived in an equality state, it was very likely they
would eventually be transferred; with no guarantees their new
assignment would be in another equality state. They lived in fear
of their families losing the everyday legal recognition others
often take for granted, like married tax status, the ability to
make healthcare decisions for your spouse, or enrolling your child
in school.”
The Kitsap Sun talked with the spouse of a Sailor on the
USS Stennis in this article:
www.kitsapsun.com/news/local-news/supreme-court-ruling-erases-uncertainty-for-local-families-on-the-move_13438317
The effects of today’s Supreme Court ruling are so far reaching
that, in a joint effort, the American Civil Liberties Union,
Freedom to Marry, Gay & Lesbian Advocates & Defenders, Human Rights
Campaign, Lambda Legal and National Center for Lesbian Rights
created a page of information for families with questions about how
this affects them:
http://marriageequalityfacts.org/
Lambda Legal was a key player in the legal part of the process
and posted this on their blog:
“What a day! After decades of work
by Lambda Legal and many others, we have at long last secured the
freedom to marry for all same-sex couples throughout the entire
United States. Today’s moving and inspirational decision in
Obergefell v. Hodges is one for the history books.”
This victory for marriage equality is about love and families,
and Kitsap PFLAG joins PFLAG National in celebrating the Supreme
Court decision. PFLAG National board president Jean Hodges made
this
statement today:
“Today feels like a wedding that the
entire country was invited to, and the whole PFLAG family is right
up front with hearts overflowing and tears in our eyes. By
affirming the rights of all loving couples to commit to each other
with the full weight of legal protection that marriage affords, the
Supreme Court has affirmed a founding principle that we must all
continue to strive for: a more perfect union.”
The Trevor
Project is the leading national organization providing crisis
intervention and suicide prevention services to lesbian, gay,
bisexual, transgender and questioning (LGBTQ) young people ages
13-24. On their
blog they describe how youth are affected by this decision in a
positive way:
“Today we celebrate the Supreme
Court’s landmark decision to uphold marriage equality across
America. This historic ruling not only affects couples who have
been fighting to obtain the basic civil right to get married, but
also the many youth who live in families with same-sex parents.
Today, all youth, including those who identify as LGBTQ, can have
hope that they will grow up in a nation that is moving towards
respecting all human rights.”
One of the highlights for me today was President Obama’s
expression of support. Part of what he said this morning about the
Supreme Court decision is:
“This ruling is a
victory for Jim Obergefell and the other plaintiffs in the case.
It’s a victory for gay and lesbian couples who have fought so long
for their basic civil rights. It’s a victory for their children,
whose families will now be recognized as equal to any other. It’s a
victory for the allies and friends and supporters who spent years,
even decades, working and praying for change to come.”
for the complete transcript of what President Obama said today
go to:
https://www.whitehouse.gov/the-press-office/2015/06/26/remarks-president-supreme-court-decision-marriage-equality
To all of you that have played a part in getting us to where we
are today, even if that part was just coming to the understanding
yourself of how marriage equality is the right thing – Thank
You!
~Marcie