Brynn Grimley writes:
I first met Hank Mann-Sykes shortly after I was hired at the
Kitsap Sun in April 2006. He claims he was so excited to have a
reporter hired to cover Central Kitsap for the Sun that he
cried. (I don’t believe him).
I have to share our first encounter because I believe it sums up
Hank’s sense of humor in a nutshell (and he is a nut).
We were to meet at the Silver City Brewery in Silverdale for
lunch. On the phone Hank described what he looked like so I
wouldn’t miss him: “I’m 5’5” about 200 pounds, bald with
horn-rimmed glasses,” he said.
So there I sat, waiting for a short, fat, bald man with glasses,
and in walks Hank — looking like none of the above. That’s when I
knew: never take anything he says seriously.
Hank has been a wonderful contact for to me; if I had a question
I could call him and he had the answer (assuming he answered the
phone).
But a few months after we met, Hank started having health
problems. I didn’t hear from him for a while, and then every few
months he’d check in. I never knew how serious his health problems
were because he never wanted to talk about it. (Still doesn’t).
Hank didn’t want his health issues to go into the story I wrote
that ran in Sunday’s paper because he doesn’t want
people feeling sorry for him. But then he decided if his story can
show someone else that they don’t have to act sick just because
they are sick, he was willing to share.
I believe, after speaking with Hank, it is his “one day at a
time” mentality that has resulted in him proving medicine wrong.
That and his desire to help the community. He refuses to focus on
being sick, and instead looks at what he can do to continue to be a
mover and a shaker in Silverdale.
Just last week his wife of 27 years Loisanne said he had people
at the house to discuss the Silverdale Haselwood Family YMCA. He
ran out of cell phone minutes for the month because he’s
reconnecting with old friends and trying to connect people to find
funding for the multi-million dollar YMCA facility, she said.
To write my story on Hank, I received a list of people Hank
suggested I call to get some perspective on “Who is Hank
Mann-Sykes.” The list grew every day, and while I called many, I
didn’t call them all. I also didn’t include everyone’s comments in
my story, however their input helped me shape the article. I’d like
to provide some of the quotes from those who know Hank here.
Bremerton Mayor Patty Lent and Hank connected first through the
Boy Scouts, an organization Hank has been involved in for 20 years
(his son Joshua is an Eagle Scout). They then worked together when
Lent was county commissioner.
“If there ever was a ‘Man of the Year,’ or a ‘Man of the
Century,’ it would be Hank Mann-Sykes,” she said. “He is as solid
as a granite rock.”
Carl Johnson, another volunteer and civic leader in Silverdale,
has known Hank for years. The two share a deep religious faith and
met once a week to study the Bible before Hank’s last trip to the
hospital.
“What I’ve discovered about Hank is, you don’t have to wonder
what he’s thinking,” Johnson said. “He kind of wears his feelings
and his thoughts out there for anyone to see and hear. And
certainly I appreciate that about him.”
Johnson, along with everyone else, called Hank an “incredibly
giving person.”
“I have a great appreciation and a general love for Hank and I
think he has made a difference in our community,” he said.
Natalie Bryson, yet another longtime Silverdale volunteer, has
shared a close friendship with Hank since he arrived in Silverdale
and wasn’t surprised to learn he had been working on the Silverdale
YMCA project from home. She said the drive to benefit his community
was the “marrow of his bones.”
“He just did things at the grass roots level and made a huge
difference for people in the community,” she said of his
volunteerism. “I can’t think of an organization that hasn’t been
impacted by his efforts in one way or another.”
There’s one thing Hank hasn’t done for the community that he’d
like to see happen before he dies: Silverdale incorporation.
“I’m going to do it if I have the energy,” he said. “If it’s the
last dying breath in my body I’m going to call someone and say lets
get this freaking thing going.”
Looking at his success record, I wouldn’t be surprised if he
does it.