One of my earliest memories is of when I was five years old and
unfortunately it isn’t a happy memory. I vividly remember my
mom setting me up on top of the washing machine and telling me that
my grandfather had passed away. Her father. Growing up
I never really thought of not having a grandfather. My dad’s
dad was still alive when I was young, but my dad is the second
youngest of eight so by the time I could really remember he was
elderly and his health was failing.
However, now that I have my own children I often wonder what it
would have been like to have a grandfather that was active in my
life. Luckily my two girls (and subsequently my brother’s two
boys) are able to experience this joy. My dad is very active
in their lives and we love him for it. He is the only
grandfather the girls have since they don’t know their
paternal grandfather. We are lucky that my mom and dad only
live two states away…a relatively easy drive, an easy
flight. We are lucky that we get to see them at least every 4
months or so and that the girls get to spend quality time with
their Papa.
Papa is a cowboy and when we go to Montana the girls enjoy
riding horses, helping feed the cows, and attending “Nana and Papa
Horse and Cow Camp”…by themselves…for a whole week.

Papa is handy. Whenever he comes
to visit us we have a “Papa Do” list at the ready. Papa loves
his girls…the grown up one and the still growing ones. Papa
is creating memories with my girls that I didn’t get to
have and for that I will be forever grateful.

I have always believed that I am the
mother that I am because of my own mother’s influence. I also
believed that I chose the man I married because I knew what true
love looked like. I chose a man that loves his own girls just
as much as I was (and still am) loved by my own father. So on
this upcoming Father’s Day I want to take a moment to say “I love
you Dad and THANK YOU for being such a wonderful Papa!”
-Stacey is a mom of two and a wife of one who likes her
family (good thing), traveling, reading celebrity gossip (I’m not
ashamed), and cooking. You can read more about her and the crew at
her blog Oh
Happy Days.
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