Joe Namath and Suzy Kolber
This past weekend, I got the opportunity to watch a fascinating
documentary on Hall of Fame QB Joe Namath. It shows on HBO and
prominently includes interviews with Namath, teammates,
journalists, and Beaver Falls, PA residents.
One of the things that most impacted me was the incident that
occurred between Namath and ESPN sideline reporter Suzy Kolber
during a 2003 prime time game between the Jets and Miami
Dolphins.
Namath was honored along with his teammates from the 1969 Super
Bowl team. Namath admitted that he had been drinking heavily all
day. By the time the 4th quarter rolled around, he was completely
intoxicated. Kolber was charged with interviewing Broadway Joe. In
the beginning, it was apparent that Namath was having some issues
talking, but they had no idea what was about to happen in front of
the entire prime time audience. Namath eschewed Kolber’s question
about Chad Pennington and several times told her he wanted to kiss
her. ESPN scrambled to get out of it, but the damage was done.
Namath admits he was humiliated. In fact, that set the stage for
him to reform his life to where it is today. But, I digress. The
thing that resonated with me was the response by Suzy Kolber.
She was interviewed for this documentary and clearly recounted
the event, with assistance from the footage. She recounted how
Namath called her the next day to apologize. She said it took him 5
minutes to apologize and she accepted. She then spent 45 more
minutes on the phone with him talking football and life. Here’s
what she said that so intrigued me. She said, “What I saw was a
really good guy who was in trouble.” She felt bad for him, didn’t
judge him, and saw him not as some drunk who couldn’t control
himself, but as a regular guy who needed help.
In the world of sports, we are very quick to pass judgement. We
often look for and hope that successful people fail (see Tim
Tebow). We automatically jump to the conclusion that someone is
damaged. I loved that Suzy Kolber looked deeper. She really exuded
a perspective that thinks of the human being first. Often,
journalists are the most cynical. Kolber showed humanity.
I’m as guilty as most of us. It’s easy to throw guys under the
bus; make fun of them; and not worry about consequences to their
lives. Suzy Kolber gave me perspective and one that I hope I can
keep the next time my QB throws an interception or one of my sports
“heroes” falls.
© 2012 Dan Weedin. All Rights Reserved
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